27 February 2013

Imperfection is beauty


“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” - Marilyn Monroe


Beauty has sort of always been an inspiration for art. And we are obsessed about beauty in one form or another. While looking our best undoubtedly makes us feel empowered and confident, it is also a performance for others. My boyfriend recently posed a very poignant question: "why don't women wear makeup when they are just hanging around the house?" Obviously to a certain extent, we dress up or make ourselves up for society. That being said, I think that it is absolutely fabulous to want to look your best. But for me, "looking your best" means embracing your imperfections and enhancing your natural features, not hiding them. Like most women, I would often nitpick about my own physical flaws but after several months of my boyfriend insisting everyday that I am beautiful, he has gotten through to me. (Ladies, find a man/woman who thinks you are the most beautiful person in the world!)

Thus, this post will be about how I enhance what I have and how I have come to accept the my forehead wrinkles, acne scars and uneven eyelids!


My skincare/makeup routine:
1. Start the morning off right with a good cleanser. I use Neutrogena's "Oil-Free Acne Wash Pink Grapefruit Cream Cleanser. I chose a "cream cleanser" specifically because winter is very drying for my skin. This cleanser is nice because it doesn't dry out the skin and it leaves a tingly, refreshed feeling.
2. Apply a serum. I use the Roc Multi-Correxion Skin Renewing Serum. This while increase moisture to your skin and fight noticeable signs of aging.
3. Apply a primer before makeup application. I use the Tarte "Clean Slate Poreless 12-Hr Perfecting Primer" which minimizes the appearance of pores and helps the makeup stay in place. I highly recommend this product. 
4. Then, mix a moisturizer with SPF with a BB Cream or foundation. Not only does it help prevent dry patches on your skin but it also looks more natural. You will have a youthful and natural glow. 
5. Define your brows. It will frame your face much better and make you look more youthful and awake. 
6. Eyeshadow is not a must for me but if I do, I usually apply a light color (white, beige) all over and a subtle brown shadow wash on my lids. Find a color that complements your eyes.
7. Eyeliner and masacra are a must. For more awake eyes, try lining your bottom waterline with a white liner and also using it on the inner corners of your eyes. For the top, use a black liner as close to the lashes as possible for a enlarging but  subtle effect.
8. Apply bronzer or blush (or both) in an upward motion towards your ears. Subtlety is the key here. 
9. Moisturize your lips with a good lip balm that contains shea butter. Finally, I like to use a lip stain like Clinique's "Chubby Stick Moisturizing Lip Colour Balm" for a subtle hint of color.
10. At night, I like to take off my makeup with an oil-based cleanser. I use one from the famous Shu Uemura cleansing oil collection. It leaves your skin so soft and clean and though it is expensive, it lasts a long time and is completely worth it.


The completed look will be one you can wear everyday and will enhance your features without hiding your true face. Be beautiful and confident everyday. 



30 January 2013

rEVOLution



Praha is much different this time of year. There is an encompassing moodiness about it, like a temperamental child. Yet, there is something so beautiful about the snow-laden streets, frigid air and grey skies. It begs of hot coffee to be had, poetry to be written, thoughts to be contemplated. 

New Year's Eve,  though almost one month past, was something that brought hope and enlightenment. Everywhere, from the first moment of darkness, fireworks exploded without care...lawless, free. We were on a park bench near the bridge we met and looking across the water, we saw the moon situated so perfectly in between the buildings, so bright and round, asserting its purpose. Then we decided to go home to watch the fireworks from our own balcony, enjoying a bottle of champagne, way too early in the night. But it was such a good idea. It seemed that the world was playing a show just for us. It was intimate and exciting.

Everything else is still in the air. It's a bit nerve-wrecking as February nears but Honza and I will make it work. We just have to. We are each other's rocks...though we drive each other crazy sometimes. But I don't care, I love it. 

10 December 2012

i was following the...

Been in Prague for a few days now. It's been much different to my visit before. Of course the first time here I was only a tourist but now living here, you become much more aware of your "otherness". I don't want to delve on this though because it's neither a good or bad thing. However, what has been interesting lately and of which will be the biggest challenge/test is the idea of normalcy. When you're in a relationship, initially things are quite exciting. You go out on dates, are both on your best behavior and you choose when you see each other. However, after awhile, things become more monotonous. And that is when reality sets in. Do you enjoy the boring everyday moments of life with that person? That is really the million dollar question. It seems that married life reflects that. Of course you do exciting and fun things once in awhile but the majority of time spent together is quite routine...so I suppose that is the biggest test. When things are new and exciting, everything is marvelous but what happens when the excitement dies down? Do the emotions taper off as well?


"I was following the pack, All swallowed in their coats With scarves of red tied 'round their throats To keep their little heads From fallin' in the snow And I turned 'round and there you go"
 - Fleet Foxes -

 

30 November 2012

living out of suitcases


Oh sweet warm California...
how you have filled me with your tender words and begged me to stay...I come sometimes to bathe in your rays and to meet again those smiling faces...but you know me just as well as I know myself. 

You are not caught up in any delusions...but it is not abandonment, no. You will always be my home but my nomadic
soul itches and yearns for something else. I cannot be certain that this is permanent but I will go as the wind goes and listen to the rhythm of my heart...though sometimes, it hurts me so. But pain is a sign of life...a symptom of existence...and when it rears its ugly head, it breaks down even the surest of us. Yes, its awful but the alternative is numbness for fuck's sake.